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	<title>Comments on: I should never have to wake up to mean emails. They make me want to curse and it&#8217;s not good to curse first thing in the morning. Besides, I can come up with more colorful phrases once I&#8217;ve had my coffee.</title>
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		<title>By: The Bare Essentials Today</title>
		<link>http://thebareessentialstoday.com/2009/10/i-should-never-have-to-wake-up-to-mean-emails-they-make-me-want-to-curse-and-its-not-good-to-curse-first-thing-in-the-morning-besides-i-can-come-up-with-more-colorful-phrases-once-ive-had-my-co/comment-page-1/#comment-198</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 11:38:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Right? Although, I&#039;m guess these people should really be watching Dr. Phil or Jerry Spring..I&#039;m just sayin&#039;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Right? Although, I&#8217;m guess these people should really be watching Dr. Phil or Jerry Spring..I&#8217;m just sayin&#8217;.</p>
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		<title>By: Catherinette Singleton</title>
		<link>http://thebareessentialstoday.com/2009/10/i-should-never-have-to-wake-up-to-mean-emails-they-make-me-want-to-curse-and-its-not-good-to-curse-first-thing-in-the-morning-besides-i-can-come-up-with-more-colorful-phrases-once-ive-had-my-co/comment-page-1/#comment-197</link>
		<dc:creator>Catherinette Singleton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 20:52:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People really need to find better things to do with their lives than send nasty emails.  I mean, really.  There has to be an episode of &quot;Judge Judy&quot; or &quot;Law &amp; Order&quot; on that can take their minds off of being such jerks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People really need to find better things to do with their lives than send nasty emails.  I mean, really.  There has to be an episode of &#8220;Judge Judy&#8221; or &#8220;Law &amp; Order&#8221; on that can take their minds off of being such jerks.</p>
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		<title>By: The Bare Essentials Today</title>
		<link>http://thebareessentialstoday.com/2009/10/i-should-never-have-to-wake-up-to-mean-emails-they-make-me-want-to-curse-and-its-not-good-to-curse-first-thing-in-the-morning-besides-i-can-come-up-with-more-colorful-phrases-once-ive-had-my-co/comment-page-1/#comment-196</link>
		<dc:creator>The Bare Essentials Today</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 11:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I get your point, but it wasn&#039;t a rant or anything like that. I probably just said, fuck it&#039;s time to get up already. But I definitely see where you&#039;re going with that, point taken!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get your point, but it wasn&#8217;t a rant or anything like that. I probably just said, fuck it&#8217;s time to get up already. But I definitely see where you&#8217;re going with that, point taken!</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 16:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Definitely don&#039;t take it personally.  He sent it before you even had time to respond, so how could it remotely have anything to do with you?  He doesn&#039;t even know you, except from your profile.  What he saw he liked.  Then he got mad and lashed out, trying to hurt you.  Nothing about you changed, only him getting mad changed.

But, um, as far as your ex, was it lecturing or was it him telling you how you made him feel? If positions were reversed and you asked your partner to keep his morning rants to himself instead of saying them out loud, wouldn&#039;t you be kinda ticked that he couldn&#039;t do that for you?  That him wanting to cuss out loud was more important than not ruining your day?  I&#039;m not saying he wasn&#039;t a dick in general, but on this one thing, he might have had a point.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Definitely don&#8217;t take it personally.  He sent it before you even had time to respond, so how could it remotely have anything to do with you?  He doesn&#8217;t even know you, except from your profile.  What he saw he liked.  Then he got mad and lashed out, trying to hurt you.  Nothing about you changed, only him getting mad changed.</p>
<p>But, um, as far as your ex, was it lecturing or was it him telling you how you made him feel? If positions were reversed and you asked your partner to keep his morning rants to himself instead of saying them out loud, wouldn&#8217;t you be kinda ticked that he couldn&#8217;t do that for you?  That him wanting to cuss out loud was more important than not ruining your day?  I&#8217;m not saying he wasn&#8217;t a dick in general, but on this one thing, he might have had a point.</p>
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		<title>By: The Bare Essentials Today</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Bare Essentials Today</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 18:18:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, I thought it was really mean. It actually hurt my feelings. I shouldn&#039;t let it, but it did!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, I thought it was really mean. It actually hurt my feelings. I shouldn&#8217;t let it, but it did!</p>
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		<title>By: The Bare Essentials Today</title>
		<link>http://thebareessentialstoday.com/2009/10/i-should-never-have-to-wake-up-to-mean-emails-they-make-me-want-to-curse-and-its-not-good-to-curse-first-thing-in-the-morning-besides-i-can-come-up-with-more-colorful-phrases-once-ive-had-my-co/comment-page-1/#comment-189</link>
		<dc:creator>The Bare Essentials Today</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 18:17:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like the way you think...I&#039;ll blame it on substance abuse! lol! I certainly hope so, some of these guys are completely whack!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like the way you think&#8230;I&#8217;ll blame it on substance abuse! lol! I certainly hope so, some of these guys are completely whack!</p>
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		<title>By: Tiffany</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 14:18:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think a lot of those guys have substance abuse issues, truly. I remember some who would just turn into FREAKS after working hours. Bizarre e-mails and whatnot...when they came across so..normal? during the day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think a lot of those guys have substance abuse issues, truly. I remember some who would just turn into FREAKS after working hours. Bizarre e-mails and whatnot&#8230;when they came across so..normal? during the day.</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
		<link>http://thebareessentialstoday.com/2009/10/i-should-never-have-to-wake-up-to-mean-emails-they-make-me-want-to-curse-and-its-not-good-to-curse-first-thing-in-the-morning-besides-i-can-come-up-with-more-colorful-phrases-once-ive-had-my-co/comment-page-1/#comment-187</link>
		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 14:15:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awww, that&#039;s really mean! Sending good thoughts your way!

xoxo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awww, that&#8217;s really mean! Sending good thoughts your way!</p>
<p>xoxo</p>
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